{"id":2872,"date":"2017-01-20T01:46:42","date_gmt":"2017-01-20T06:46:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/?p=2872"},"modified":"2019-11-15T14:53:44","modified_gmt":"2019-11-15T11:53:44","slug":"likeaholism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/likeaholism\/2872\/","title":{"rendered":"Sosyal medyan\u0131n aile hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 mahvetmesinden ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131z i\u00e7in ipu\u00e7lar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi\u00e7 be\u011fenilerin bug\u00fcnlerde mahremiyetinizi nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Dijital ileti\u015fim farkl\u0131 \u015fehirler ve \u00fclkeler aras\u0131ndaki mesafeyi yok ederek, insanlar\u0131n aileleri ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yla ileti\u015fimde kalmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in var. Maalesef, tam tersi olarak da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabiliyor. Hepimiz \u015funda hem fikiriz, internet y\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fimin yerini tutamaz ama \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i olarak ilgi arayabiliyoruz. G\u00f6nderilerimizin be\u011fenilmesi ve payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 hepimizin ho\u015funa gidiyor.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Bu sorun ger\u00e7ekten bu kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck m\u00fc?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Bu soru teorik spek\u00fclasyonlar meydana getirebilir, bu y\u00fczden cevab\u0131 baz\u0131 verilere ve ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara dayand\u0131rmak istedik. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131m\u0131z \u015funu do\u011frulad\u0131: sosyal a\u011flar ger\u00e7ekten bir\u00e7ok sorunu \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcyor, ama ayn\u0131 anda yeni sorunlar\u0131 beraberinde getiriyor.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ara\u015ft\u0131rmam\u0131z\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle:<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Be\u011feniler kendine sayg\u0131n\u0131n yeni standard\u0131 m\u0131?<\/h2>\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fcnene g\u00f6re her on sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131ndan biri arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 ve hatta yabanc\u0131lar\u0131 etkilemek i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Bazen olmad\u0131klar\u0131 yerde olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ya da yapmad\u0131klar\u0131 \u015feyi yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar. Dahas\u0131, daha fazla pop\u00fclerlik i\u00e7in etik yarg\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelebiliyorlar. Mesela, be\u011feni i\u00e7in arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n utan\u00e7 verici hallerini payla\u015fmakta sorun g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorlar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2874\" src=\"https:\/\/media.kasperskydaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/91\/2017\/01\/06013454\/online-depression-likes-1-en.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"600\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bizim i\u00e7in \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 olan bir di\u011fer sonuca g\u00f6re; insanlar\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131, i\u015f arkada\u015flar\u0131 ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131 hakk\u0131ndaki gizli \u015feyleri payla\u015fmakta bir sorun g\u00f6rmemeleri.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2876\" src=\"https:\/\/media.kasperskydaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/91\/2017\/01\/06013452\/online-depression-likes-2-en.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"480\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fka bir \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 bilgi de \u015fu, be\u011feni almak ad\u0131na erkekler kad\u0131nlardan daha ileri gitmeye haz\u0131rlar. Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n utan\u00e7 verici foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fman\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, erkekler kendi utan\u00e7 verici foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 da payla\u015fmakta sorun g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorlar. Erkekler ayr\u0131ca g\u00f6nderileri beklediklerinden daha az be\u011feni ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda daha \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorlar ve de\u011fer verdikleri insanlar g\u00f6nderileriyle etkile\u015fime ge\u00e7medi\u011finde daha \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorlar (erkeklerin %24&#8217;\u00fc, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %17&#8217;si).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2875\" src=\"https:\/\/media.kasperskydaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/91\/2017\/01\/06013453\/online-depression-likes-3-en.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"480\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Be\u011feni avc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapmak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiliyor?<\/h2>\n<p>H\u0131zla geli\u015fen, y\u00fcksek teknolojik bir d\u00fcnyada ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Ailemiz, arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z ve i\u015f arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i olarak istedi\u011fimiz zaman g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015febiliyor olmam\u0131z, onlar\u0131 y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6rme ihtimalimizi azalt\u0131yor. Kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n %31&#8217;i sosyal medyada g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015febildi\u011fi i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ek hayatta aileleriyle daha az g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, %33&#8217;\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla daha az g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, %23&#8217;\u00fc partnerleriyle daha az g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ve %35&#8217;i arkada\u015flar\u0131yla daha az g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc belirtti.<\/p>\n<p>Ek olarak, be\u011feni avc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapmak ailemizi etkiliyor. \u00d6rne\u011fin, internet kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n %21&#8217;inin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile olan ili\u015fkileri, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ebeveynlerinin sosyal medyada uygunsuz payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bozuldu\u011funu belirtti. Daha \u00f6nce de belirtti\u011fimiz gibi, insanlar daha fazla be\u011feni alacaklar\u0131n\u0131 bildikleri zaman uygunsuz i\u00e7erikleri bile bay\u0131la bay\u0131la payla\u015f\u0131yorlar. Yani bu k\u0131s\u0131r bir d\u00f6ng\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fcnen o ki, aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 daha az yarg\u0131l\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan rahats\u0131z olanlar\u0131n oran\u0131 %14. Ek olarak, yakla\u015f\u0131k olarak kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n %16&#8217;s\u0131 e\u015fleri ya da partnerleriyle olan ili\u015fkinin payla\u015f\u0131lan uygunsuz g\u00f6nderiler sebebiyle zarar g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc belirtti.<\/p>\n<h2>Siz ne yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/h2>\n<p>Ankete kat\u0131lan kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 sosyal medyan\u0131n ili\u015fkilerinin kalitelerine zarar vermedi\u011fini, aksine internetin aileleri daha da yakla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Do\u011fru olabilir. Ancak W\u00fcrzburg \u00dcniversitesi&#8217;nden Medya Psikolo\u011fu Dr. Astrid Carolus, insanlar\u0131n kendi \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i aktivitelerini tarafs\u0131z bir \u015fekilde de\u011ferlendirmeyece\u011fi konusunda uyar\u0131yor. Bu y\u00fczden size basit bir \u015fey \u00f6neriyoruz: <strong>Ailenizi ya da arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 en son ne zaman ziyaret etti\u011finizi hat\u0131rlay\u0131n.<\/strong> E\u011fer cevab\u0131n\u0131z &#8220;birka\u00e7 hafta \u00f6nce&#8221; ise, belki de art\u0131k tekrar ziyaret vakti gelmi\u015ftir. Yanlar\u0131na gidin (eli bo\u015f gitmeyin) ve onlar\u0131 \u00f6zledi\u011finizi s\u00f6yleyin. Hepsi bu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sosyal medyan\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6nemini anlaman\u0131za yar\u0131yacak ba\u015fka bir \u015fey.<\/strong> Be\u011feniye a\u00e7 m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? G\u00fcn i\u00e7erisinde Facebook&#8217;unuzu birka\u00e7 defa ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z reaksiyonlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in kontrol ediyor musunuz? E\u011fer \u015f\u00fcpheleriniz varsa, testimizi \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcn ve be\u011feni ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kontrol edin.<\/p>\n<div data-opinionstage-embed-url=\"https:\/\/www.opinionstage.com\/api\/v1\/widgets\/kasperskysm\/be%C4%9Feni-ba%C4%9F%C4%B1ml%C4%B1s%C4%B1-m%C4%B1s%C4%B1n%C4%B1z\/code.json?width=\" style=\"display: none; visibility: hidden;\"><\/div>\n<p>Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131n %58&#8217;i, payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011fi foto\u011fraflar\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman rahats\u0131z ve \u00fczg\u00fcn hissetti\u011fini de g\u00f6sterdi. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ipucumuz: <strong>bir \u015feyler payla\u015fmadan \u00f6nce her zaman iki defa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/strong> Payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir g\u00f6nderinin h\u0131rs\u0131zlar\u0131 evinize \u00e7ekece\u011fini mi, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hislerini mi incitece\u011fini bilemezsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi\u00e7 be\u011fenilerin bug\u00fcnlerde mahremiyetinizi nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Dijital ileti\u015fim farkl\u0131 \u015fehirler ve \u00fclkeler aras\u0131ndaki mesafeyi yok ederek, insanlar\u0131n aileleri ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yla ileti\u015fimde kalmalar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in var. Maalesef, tam tersi olarak da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabiliyor. Hepimiz \u015funda hem fikiriz, internet y\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fimin yerini tutamaz ama \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i olarak ilgi arayabiliyoruz. G\u00f6nderilerimizin be\u011fenilmesi ve payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 hepimizin ho\u015funa gidiyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":522,"featured_media":2873,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1352],"tags":[1118,667,1113,661,1112,352,716],"class_list":{"0":"post-2872","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-special-projects","8":"tag-aile","9":"tag-arastirma","10":"tag-begeni-bagimliligi","11":"tag-cocuklar","12":"tag-dijital-depresyon","13":"tag-kaspersky-lab","14":"tag-sosyal-medya"},"hreflang":[{"hreflang":"tr","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/likeaholism\/2872\/"},{"hreflang":"en-ae","url":"https:\/\/me-en.kaspersky.com\/blog\/likeaholism\/5849\/"},{"hreflang":"ar","url":"https:\/\/me.kaspersky.com\/blog\/likeaholism\/4064\/"},{"hreflang":"en-us","url":"https:\/\/usa.kaspersky.com\/blog\/likeaholism\/10708\/"},{"hreflang":"en-gb","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.uk\/blog\/likeaholism\/8281\/"},{"hreflang":"es-mx","url":"https:\/\/latam.kaspersky.com\/blog\/likeaholism\/8829\/"},{"hreflang":"es","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.es\/blog\/likeaholism\/9900\/"},{"hreflang":"it","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.it\/blog\/likeaholism\/9633\/"},{"hreflang":"ru","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.ru\/blog\/likeaholism\/13991\/"},{"hreflang":"x-default","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/likeaholism\/13873\/"},{"hreflang":"fr","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.fr\/blog\/likeaholism\/6615\/"},{"hreflang":"pt-br","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.br\/blog\/likeaholism\/7067\/"},{"hreflang":"pl","url":"https:\/\/plblog.kaspersky.com\/likeaholism\/6050\/"},{"hreflang":"de","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.de\/blog\/likeaholism\/9529\/"},{"hreflang":"ja","url":"https:\/\/blog.kaspersky.co.jp\/likeaholism\/13683\/"},{"hreflang":"ru-kz","url":"https:\/\/blog.kaspersky.kz\/likeaholism\/13991\/"},{"hreflang":"en-au","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.au\/blog\/likeaholism\/13873\/"},{"hreflang":"en-za","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.za\/blog\/likeaholism\/13873\/"}],"acf":[],"banners":"","maintag":{"url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/tag\/arastirma\/","name":"ara\u015ft\u0131rma"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2872","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/522"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2872"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2872\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7094,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2872\/revisions\/7094"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2872"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2872"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2872"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}