{"id":4258,"date":"2017-10-13T09:57:51","date_gmt":"2017-10-13T06:57:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/?p=4258"},"modified":"2019-11-15T14:47:41","modified_gmt":"2019-11-15T11:47:41","slug":"online-dating-lies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/4258\/","title":{"rendered":"Herkes yalan s\u00f6yler: Arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitelerinde neler hakk\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6ylenir?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kaspersky Lab ve B2B International olarak \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitesi kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f modellerini ve kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 tehditleri birlikte <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-report\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131k<\/a>. Kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n hangi t\u00fcr bilgileri payla\u015fmaya haz\u0131r oldu\u011funu ve bu kadar \u00e7ok ki\u015finin neden (ve ne hakk\u0131nda) yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fini bulduk.<\/p>\n<h2>Kimler yalan s\u00f6yler?<\/h2>\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131, bu sitelerdeki insanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu yalan s\u00f6ylemektedir. Anketimize kat\u0131lanlar\u0131n %57\u2019si arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitelerinde ger\u00e7e\u011fi abartarak s\u00fcslediklerini itiraf etmi\u015ftir. Yalan s\u00f6yleme olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 en y\u00fcksek olanlar evli erkeklerdir. Bunlar\u0131n %67\u2019si profillerindeki bilgileri doldururken veya web sitesinde ileti\u015fim kurarken yalan s\u00f6ylediklerini kabul etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Evli kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca yalan s\u00f6yleme nedeni ise medeni durumlar\u0131n\u0131 saklamakt\u0131r. Bunun haricinde, hem kad\u0131nlar hem de erkekler en \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fleri hakk\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6ylemektedir. Genel olarak insanlar ya\u015flar\u0131, sosyal stat\u00fcleri ve benzeri konularda yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131 bilgiler vermektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu yalanlar sizi \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtmam\u0131\u015f olabilir. Ancak, bu ankette ilgin\u00e7 bir \u015fekilde yalan s\u00f6yleyen ki\u015filerin d\u00fcr\u00fcst ki\u015filere k\u0131yasla kendilerine s\u00f6ylenen yalandan daha \u00e7ok etkilendi\u011fini fark ettik. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fe g\u00f6re, d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmayan kullan\u0131c\u0131lar, do\u011fru s\u00f6ylemenin bir ki\u015finin \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i profilini ne kadar de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011fini daha iyi anl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<h2>Neden yalan s\u00f6ylenir?<\/h2>\n<p>Bu ara\u015ft\u0131rmada, bir\u00e7ok kullan\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n (%16) olas\u0131 partnerlerine daha iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcnme umuduyla kendilerini yanl\u0131\u015f tan\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Bu konuda haks\u0131z olmayabilirler. B\u00fcy\u00fck bir arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitesi olan OkCuplid <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-report\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">verilerine<\/a> g\u00f6re, sitenin kad\u0131n ziyaret\u00e7ileri taraf\u0131ndan daha \u00e7ekici olarak derecelendirilen erkekler (\u00f6rne\u011fin daha uzun, daha kasl\u0131 ve daha iyi bir i\u015fe sahip olan) daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck derecelendirilen erkeklere k\u0131yasla 11 kat daha fazla mesaj al\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 durum kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. Geleneksel anlamda \u00e7ekici (zay\u0131f ve gen\u00e7) kabul edilen kad\u0131n ziyaret\u00e7iler \u201corta\u201d \u00e7ekicili\u011fe sahip kad\u0131nlara g\u00f6re 5 kat, \u00e7ekici olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen kad\u0131nlara g\u00f6re 28 kat daha fazla mesaj al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok mesaj alman\u0131n tan\u0131\u015fma olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul edersek hem kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hem de erkeklerin foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 ve profillerini neden s\u00fcsledikleri daha iyi anla\u015f\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak insanlar\u0131n yalan s\u00f6ylemelerinin tek nedeni partnerlerini daha h\u0131zl\u0131 bulma iste\u011fi de\u011fildir. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya kat\u0131lan erkeklerin %36\u2019s\u0131 \u201csadece e\u011flenmek i\u00e7in\u201d yalan s\u00f6ylerken (kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %31\u2019i de bu sebeple yalan s\u00f6ylediklerini kabul ediyor) kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda en yayg\u0131n yalan nedeni korkudur. Kad\u0131n ziyaret\u00e7ilerin %34\u2019\u00fcn\u00fcn kendileri hakk\u0131ndaki bilgiyi de\u011fi\u015ftirme nedeni ger\u00e7ek bilgilerinin k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli ve sahtek\u00e2r ki\u015filer taraf\u0131ndan kullan\u0131lmas\u0131ndan korkmalar\u0131d\u0131r. Asl\u0131nda bu t\u00fcr korkular yersiz de\u011fildir: Arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitelerini ziyaret eden ki\u015filerin %55\u2019i bu hizmetlerin kullan\u0131m\u0131yla ilgili baz\u0131 sorunlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmi\u015ftir. Bu sorunlar, rahats\u0131z edici konu\u015fmalardan siber tehditlere kadar farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p>Yalan s\u00f6ylemenin ba\u015fka nedenleri de vard\u0131r: Arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitesi ziyaret\u00e7ileri ve arkada\u015fl\u0131k uygulamalar\u0131n\u0131n kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 bu sitelerin o kadar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/tech\/personal\/2015\/03\/08\/dating-apps\/24594675\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">sayg\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/a> d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekte ve arkada\u015flar\u0131 ya da ailelerinin profillerini g\u00f6rmelerini istememektedir. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmam\u0131za g\u00f6re ziyaret\u00e7ilerin %5\u2019i arkada\u015fl\u0131k etkinliklerini partnerlerinden saklarken %3\u2019\u00fc ise partnerleri veya e\u015flerinin arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitesi veya hizmeti kullan\u0131p kullanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Bu sorunla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabiliriz?<\/h2>\n<p>Maalesef profillerin abart\u0131lmas\u0131yla ilgili bu sorun i\u00e7in kolay bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulunmuyor. Profillerde verilen bilgiler genellikle yanl\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen arkada\u015fl\u0131k siteleri h\u00e2l\u00e2 son derece pop\u00fcler. \u0130nternet kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n %32\u2019si bu siteleri kullan\u0131yor. Bu bak\u0131mdan, arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitelerini kullananlar di\u011fer kullan\u0131c\u0131lara k\u0131yasla daha \u00e7ok siber sald\u0131r\u0131 riski alt\u0131ndad\u0131r. Tehditlerle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kalanlar\u0131n kalmayanlara oran\u0131 %41\u2019e %20\u2019dir. Bu insanlar\u0131n genel olarak interneti daha \u00e7ok kulland\u0131klar\u0131 ve bu nedenle sald\u0131rganlar i\u00e7in daha \u00e7ok f\u0131rsat yaratt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylenebilir. Ancak sahte bilgi, ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir tehlikedir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130leti\u015fim kurdu\u011funuz biri sosyal m\u00fchendislikle g\u00fcveninizi kazan\u0131p sizinle konu\u015furken edindi\u011fi bilgileri <a href=\"https:\/\/securelist.com\/threats\/spear-phishing-glossary\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hedefli kimlik av\u0131<\/a> gibi ama\u00e7larla kullanmak yerine sadece ya\u015f\u0131 ve i\u015fi hakk\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6ylediyse kendinizi \u015fansl\u0131 sayabilirsiniz. Yani \u201ce\u015fle\u015fti\u011finiz\u201d yabanc\u0131larla konu\u015furken her zaman tetikte olun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k hepsinin g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorsunuz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kaspersky Lab ve B2B International olarak \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitesi kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f modellerini ve kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 tehditleri birlikte ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131k. Kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n hangi t\u00fcr bilgileri payla\u015fmaya haz\u0131r oldu\u011funu ve bu kadar \u00e7ok ki\u015finin neden (ve ne hakk\u0131nda) yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fini bulduk.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2458,"featured_media":4259,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[994],"tags":[1384,500,744,777,1280,686,625],"class_list":{"0":"post-4258","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-privacy","8":"tag-arkadaslarik-siteleri","9":"tag-gizlilik","10":"tag-guvenlik","11":"tag-internet","12":"tag-internet-siteleri","13":"tag-kisisel-veri","14":"tag-koruma"},"hreflang":[{"hreflang":"tr","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/4258\/"},{"hreflang":"en-in","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.in\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/11542\/"},{"hreflang":"en-us","url":"https:\/\/usa.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/12989\/"},{"hreflang":"en-gb","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.uk\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/11880\/"},{"hreflang":"es-mx","url":"https:\/\/latam.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/11365\/"},{"hreflang":"es","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.es\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/14553\/"},{"hreflang":"it","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.it\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/14311\/"},{"hreflang":"ru","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.ru\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/18966\/"},{"hreflang":"x-default","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/19703\/"},{"hreflang":"pt-br","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.br\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/9797\/"},{"hreflang":"pl","url":"https:\/\/plblog.kaspersky.com\/online-dating-lies\/8347\/"},{"hreflang":"de","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.de\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/14944\/"},{"hreflang":"ja","url":"https:\/\/blog.kaspersky.co.jp\/online-dating-lies\/18428\/"},{"hreflang":"en-au","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.au\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/18893\/"},{"hreflang":"en-za","url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.co.za\/blog\/online-dating-lies\/18885\/"}],"acf":[],"banners":"","maintag":{"url":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/tag\/arkadaslarik-siteleri\/","name":"arkada\u015flar\u0131k siteleri"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2458"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4258"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4258\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7019,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4258\/revisions\/7019"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4259"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.tr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}